The Top 10 Problems in Marriage
By
Lisa Tanner
Marriage is a hard job. No matter how hard you try,
some problems just can't be avoided. Here are the top
ten problems in marriage, in no particular order.
1) Cheating Spouse - Far and way the most painful,
and best dealt with by getting an admission from the
offending spouse without cluing them in that you know.
The guilt will normally bring them back in line if the
marriage can be saved. If the cheating continues, run
like hell.
2) Negative Talking - Stop speaking negatively of
your spouse and be nice.
3) Too much time together - You must have a balanced
life and quit depending on your spouse to make you
happy. Their job is only to provide the tools, not
control your feelings for you.
4) Too much time apart - This usually happens not
because of a lack of things in common, but for some
other underlying reason that makes one spouse avoid the
other.
5) Family Interference - Your spouse married you, and
you them. That trumps all family input from outside the
marriage.
6) Kids - I love kids, but some people just don't and
should never have them. But if your spouse makes a good
parent, they can be a good spouse if you allow them to
be.
7) Money - A lot of marriages consist of one spender
and one saver. This can lead to all sorts of fun and a
compromise must be reached.
8) Communication Failure - Have you considered your
spouse may not want to talk to you because of the way
you respond when they do? Take the lead.
9) Perception of Home Life - I say perception because
that really determines reality. If one spouse is not
happy, they will make the other one miserable. The
choice of living arrangements must always be agreed upon
or problems will arise.
10) Lack or Loss of Trust - Without trust in a
marriage you have nothing to build on. Trust be not only
be earned, it must be given as well.
These are the top ten problems in marriage and the
root of all divorce.
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